Rani Mukerji Says ‘Wives Should Raise Their Voices at Husbands’; Internet Responds: ‘Can’t We Just Talk About Peace?’

Actor Rani Mukerji’s recent comments on marital dynamics and gender roles have sparked a lively debate online, with many social media users questioning whether raising one’s voice should ever be normalised in relationships.

In a conversation with Bollywood Hungama, the actor spoke at length about how family environments shape children—particularly boys—and emphasised the role fathers play in modelling respectful behaviour at home. While her broader message focused on equality and respect, one remark in particular drew sharp reactions across platforms like Reddit and Instagram.

What Rani Mukerji Said

Discussing how a child’s worldview is influenced by parental behaviour, Rani stressed that respect for women begins at home.

“I think respect starts at home. Very easily, when you see your mother being ill-treated, it empowers boys to think that if my mother can be treated like this, every other girl can be treated the same way,” she said.

Highlighting the responsibility fathers carry, Rani added, “If your mother is treated well, if she’s given respect, boys will understand that women are supposed to be given that respect and that darja in society.”

However, it was her next statement that became the focal point of online criticism.
“Even a small thing like a father raising his voice at the mother shouldn’t happen. You know, the mother should raise her voice at the father—that’s how it should be,” she remarked.

Rani also recalled an anecdote from her school days, sharing that she once slapped a boy, before adding a joking reference to her husband, filmmaker Aditya Chopra.
“Only one boy I slapped, and the rest of the boys were my friends. And just don’t go and ask my husband what happens to him every day at home,” she said with a laugh.

Internet Reacts: ‘Why Normalise Shouting?’

While some viewers interpreted Rani’s remarks as humorous or metaphorical, a significant section of social media users expressed discomfort, arguing that shouting—regardless of gender—should not be encouraged in healthy relationships.

One user wrote, “I think she tries to be funny, but she doesn’t realise that she is not.”
Another commented, “She laughs and insists she made a great point.”

Others questioned why such statements often go unchallenged.
“What kind of behaviour is this? Just because she’s from an older generation doesn’t mean she can say anything,” one post read.

A recurring sentiment across platforms focused on promoting calm communication instead.
“Why would anyone raise their voice against anyone? Can’t we just talk about peace and gentle conversation?” a user asked, while another added, “Normalising shouting in a relationship—no matter who does it—is a strange hill to die on.”

The debate highlights how public discourse around relationships, gender equality, and communication styles has evolved—particularly among younger audiences who increasingly advocate for emotionally healthy conflict resolution.

What’s Next for Rani Mukerji

On the professional front, Rani Mukerji is gearing up for the release of Mardaani 3, the next chapter in the popular franchise featuring her as fearless cop Shivani Shivaji Roy. The film follows her character’s continued battle against crime, with a strong focus on violence against women.

Written by Aayush Gupta, directed by Abhiraj Minwala, and produced by Aditya Chopra, Mardaani 3 is scheduled to release in theatres on January 30.