Actor Nauheed Cyrusi has shared one of the most personal chapters of her life, opening up about pregnancy loss, her decision not to pursue IVF, and how she and her husband, Rustom Contractor, have found fulfillment in caring for rescued animals.
In a heartfelt video posted on Instagram, the actor responded to a follower who asked why she had chosen not to have children. Rather than offering a brief reply, Nauheed spoke candidly about the emotional journey that shaped her outlook on family, motherhood, and life’s purpose.
Nauheed Cyrusi Recalls Her First Pregnancy Loss
Nauheed and Rustom Contractor married in January 2017. About a year later, the couple learned they were expecting their first child.
Sharing the experience, Nauheed revealed that the pregnancy ended in a miscarriage during the third month after what they believed would be a routine medical check-up.
She recalled that doctors were unable to detect the baby’s heartbeat, turning what had been a hopeful appointment into a heartbreaking moment for the couple.
The actor described it as one of the most difficult experiences of her life.
Finding Comfort in an Unexpected Companion
Following the loss, Nauheed and her husband welcomed a different kind of family member into their lives.
The couple adopted Jojo, an elderly Cocker Spaniel from the SPCA, whom Nauheed described as being almost blind and almost deaf.
She said caring for Jojo helped bring comfort during a deeply emotional period and marked the beginning of their stronger connection with animal welfare.
A Second Miscarriage During the Pandemic
Years later, during the COVID-19 pandemic, Nauheed became pregnant again.
Sadly, the second pregnancy also ended in miscarriage.
Reflecting on the experience, she explained that the repeated losses gradually changed how she and her husband viewed their future.
Instead of measuring happiness solely through parenthood, they began exploring what other purpose they could embrace together.
“Our Purpose May Be Different”
Nauheed shared that she and Rustom eventually realized that their lives could have meaning beyond raising children.
She spoke about the changing world and said it encouraged them to think differently about the future.
The actor revealed that the couple has quietly dedicated significant time to helping animals in need, although they have rarely spoken publicly about their efforts.
According to Nauheed, caring for rescued animals has become an important part of their lives and gives them a strong sense of purpose.
Why She Chose Not to Pursue IVF
During the video, Nauheed also addressed questions about fertility treatment.
She explained that she personally decided not to undergo IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) or other assisted reproductive procedures.
The decision, she said, reflected her own beliefs and comfort level. She felt that if parenthood was meant to happen naturally, it would happen in its own time.
Nauheed emphasized that this was a personal choice and not a judgment of the decisions made by others facing fertility challenges.
She also revealed that she has frozen her eggs, leaving open the possibility of reconsidering her options in the future.
Opening a Conversation About Pregnancy Loss
By sharing her experience publicly, Nauheed has contributed to a broader conversation around miscarriage and reproductive health—topics that many families experience but often discuss privately.
Medical experts note that miscarriage is relatively common and can occur for many different reasons, often without anything the parents could have prevented. They encourage anyone coping with pregnancy loss to seek appropriate medical guidance and emotional support.
Nauheed concluded her message by expressing hope that her honest account would answer the questions she has received over the years and help others better understand her journey.
