Benny Blanco Reveals Why He Keeps Relationship With Selena Gomez Private

Music producer Benny Blanco has shared why he prefers to keep details about his relationship with Selena Gomez away from public discussion.

During a recent episode of his Friends Keep Secrets podcast released on May 12, Benny responded to questions about his personal life with the singer and actress. While speaking with cohost Lil Dicky, the producer explained that he chooses not to discuss intimate details publicly.

“I’m not allowed to talk about that publicly,” Benny said during the conversation, later clarifying that his silence is based on personal respect rather than any legal agreement.

The 38-year-old producer dismissed speculation about non-disclosure agreements, explaining that he simply believes in maintaining privacy within the relationship.

Benny and Selena reportedly married during a private ceremony in September 2025 after dating publicly since late 2023. Over the past year, both stars have occasionally shared details about their relationship in interviews and social media posts.

In another recent appearance, Benny humorously discussed Selena’s eating preferences, saying she enjoys comfort food more than healthy meals. He also mentioned that she enjoys certain wellness foods while avoiding vegetables in salads.

Despite keeping some aspects of their relationship private, Benny has spoken openly about his admiration for the singer. In a previous interview, he described their relationship as supportive and free of ego, adding that both encourage each other’s success.

Selena has also spoken positively about her relationship with Benny in past interviews, describing him as an important source of support and friendship in her life.

The couple first sparked dating rumors in 2023 before confirming their relationship publicly later that year through social media interactions and appearances together.

Relationship Timeline Highlights

• July 2023: Benny Blanco said their relationship began around Selena Gomez’s birthday.
• Late 2023: Romance rumors gained attention online.
• December 2023: Selena publicly confirmed the relationship on social media.
• 2025: Reports emerged that the couple married in a private ceremony.